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One Man's Opinion: Civility Begins at Home
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One Man's Opinion: Civility Begins at Home

One Man's Opinion: Civility Begins at Home

One Man's Opinion: Civility Begins at Home

"If a man continually blusters, if he lacks civility, a big stick will not save him from trouble, and neither will speaking softly avail, if back of the softness there does not lie strength, power..." President Theodore Roosevelt (1858-1919).

Teddy Roosevelt, or as he often preferred, "T.R." is my favorite president by far. The former "boy Governor of New York" became President in 1901, ascending from the Vice-Presidency, following the fall 1900 assassination of President William H. McKinley.

The Roosevelts, Teddy, and later F.D.R., Eleanor and others, were not above hard fought political contests, and even occasional mud-slinging, but in the White House, as well as on the campaign trail and in public life, this split party family believed in the civility of the discourse.

Our current President did not create the great divide in our nation, nor did he alone brings things to their current state, of an almost daily shooting or most recently regular acts of domestic terrorism. 

And civility, teaching it, practicing it and living it, begins at home. As a columnist, commentator and analyst of things political, I have lost count in recent months of how many times I've been approached by a reader, listener or viewer, sharing their concerns about the great divide present in our nation. Invariably and with increasing frequency, at some point during these brief encounters my new acquaintance will offer, "And I can't even speak to my children, husband, high school best friend...fill in the blank here...about the President or politics anymore.”

I hear you and I understand where you are coming from. But if we can't, as a nation, or even within your own circle and family, speak civilly with our relatives, friends and neighbors, about the direction and leadership of our country, what hope can we EVER have that our elected leaders will get it together? In other words, if it's 'okay' to write off a friendship of decades, or to not speak to a sibling or progeny or parent over differences of politics... Then why isn't it okay for a Supreme Court confirmation hearing to devolve into the spectacle the world recently witnessed?

Hate speech, arguments laced with profanity and insults as the first volley among strangers seemingly have become the conversation style point of today. And yet, there are reams of research to back me up on this, that once one side starts shouting during a dispute, the other side most typically stops listening.

We have real, yet comparatively minor differences of age, race, culture, education, demographics, etc...but we are all humans, comprised primarily of salt water resembling the cleaner parts of our oceans. We all value freedom, safety, peaceful communities, quality schools and generally speaking, take pride in being Americans. As usual the devil is in the details of achieving those standards as well as determining how they might be funded and who best to pay.

But those differences are not likely to go away. And we can only control our own actions, and possibly influence small circles immediately around us. Our children and others ARE paying attention and watching us. Leadership by example is real, not just some trite cliche. I try to practice this every single day.

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One Man's Opinion: Civility Begins at Home

Try starting yourself during this Thanksgiving and holiday season, as we gather or sit for the great feast...try a fresh approach to discourse and the political beast between courses. The mid-term elections, absent run-offs, will at that point be safely a few weeks in rear-view.

"I'm sorry, I know in recent years I’ve let my strong beliefs or opinions be shared too loudly. I have often tried to drown out or simply not listen to other points of view. That is wrong. I apologize. I don't want to ruin our wonderful celebration with talk of politics or faith, but when these do come up again, I promise I will do everything I can to listen, to be respectful and even when I disagree with you...to remember that our family/friendship is more important...and trumps winning the argument itself every time (pun intended)."

Try it. What have you got to lose? And once we can all get enough of our own houses back in order, then it might be time to ask the folks at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue and on Capitol Hill to get back with the program as well. Civility begins at home. Here’s wishing you and yours the very best during the mid-terms just in view and the holiday season which follows.

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